The perfect wedding earrings.


When picking the perfect wedding earrings there are a number of factors to consider, Firstly the style you are trying to achieve. There is no point wearing hoop earrings.. well ever.Image

Secondly the weight – this is often something overlooked by a bride, Remember ladies this is a long day and ditching your earrings mid wedding is almost as bad as ditching those 1inch too high heels.


But don’t get me wrong, I love these earrings. I’m just saying, think about it. 

Thirdly the time of day – I have never liked a huge, blinging earring in the morning, or afternoon for that matter. those type of earrings should be saved for the night time. I do love the light simple earrings.



STAY AWAY FROM BRIGHTLY COLOURED EARRINGS. I think this should be in the bride rule book.


White gold, White, Cream, Silver or limited pastels only should be used.



Personally my favourite look on a bride is the traditional pearl earrings.

These can go with basically any dress and has a way of reflecting class on your hair style.



Just so you know… You are Lovely.

The one that got away.

A tragic loss. Fate interfering. Bad timing.

Whatever excuses I may have used at the time are pointless because in the end it doesnt make me any closer to being with him. It doesn’t make my actions any less stupid.

The real truth of the matter is I took him for granted and I paid the ultimate price.

We will never make another memory.

I will ALWAYS love him and he will never forgive me and I dont blame him.

When describing him I would not be able to look past the word perfection. He was a fun loving spirited man who took every oportunity given to him and made the most of it.

He made me a better person, I challenged myself, I did things that scared me. With him by my side nothing was scary, everything was beautiful but for some reason I thought I needed more.

I hope one day he realises, I made a mistake. I left. But he meant the world to me and he still does.


‘Be mindful of what you toss away, be careful of what you push away & think hard before you walk away’

“These days, I haven’t been sleeping,

Staying up, playing back myself leaving,

When your birthday passed, and I didn’t call
Then I think about summer, all the beautiful times I watched you laughing from the passenger side

And realized I loved you in the fall
And then the cold came, the dark days When fear crept into my mind You gave me all your love, and all I gave you was goodbye

So this is me swallowing my pride Standing in front of you, saying I’m sorry for that night And I go back to December all the time

And you said It’s too late to apologise”

– Back to December by Taylor Swift

Love stories.

They say when you meet the love of your life, time stops. And that’s true. What  they don’t tell you, is that once time starts again, it moves extra fast to  catch up.

Love at first sight, is it possible?

As much as I love to watch all of the soppy chick flicks as much as the next girl I find it hard to understand this idea of love at first sight.

Love, after all is more then what meets the eye. It is beautifully emotional, it is the ability of sharing 100% of who you are with someone else.

It is a scary and magical feeling that allows you to be brave enough to bare your soul to someone. So how can you fall in love with someone without knowing them?

I love you. Like Crazy.

The tough thing about following your heart is that people forget to mention that sometimes the heart takes you to places you shouldn’t be. Places that are as scary as they are exciting, and as dangerous as they are alluring. Sometimes your heart cannot take you to places that lead to happy endings. That’s not even the difficult part; the difficult part is when you follow your heart, you leave normal; you go into the unknown and once you do, you can never go back

After all this time?. Always.

Snape: “So when the time comes… the boy must die?”

Dumbledore: “Yes. Yes… he must die.”

Snape: “You’ve kept him alive so that he can die at the proper moment. You’ve been raising him like a pig for slaughter!”

Dumbledore: “Don’t tell me now that you’ve grown to care for the boy.

Lily… after all this time?”

Snape:  “Always”

The tragicically beautiful moment where you finally understand the complex character of Severus Snape.

First love. The Start.

I used to believe that love conquered all.

I was only fifteen years old when I first felt the amazing, terrible, ridiculously crazy feeling of love. I was head of over heels. I cant even begin to describe the deep emotion, the ridiculous choices and the bravery I found whilst holding his hand.

I was always the center of attention when it came to boys but I was never one to act on anything, that was until I met.. lets just call him James. James was brittish, he was charming, and best of all, he was funny.

James had a way of grabbing the attention of everyone in the room, I guess thats why I was drawn to him.

His fearless attitude, his close relationships with his family and friends. I loved it, I loved him and nothing. NOTHING. Could make me think bad of him. He was perfect in my eyes.

But he was a liar and he was good at it and I  was just fifteen year old fool in love.

How did I not see the signs right at the beginning?  What makes us ignore the obvious?

Love has the power of making you believe what you would normally treat with the deepest suspicion.